People often ask me about my experience trying a real dildo. To be honest, it’s a big decision and not something I take lightly. There’s no right or wrong answer when it comes to deciding when to try it, but there is a right way to go about it.
First of all, I can’t stress enough how important it is to be prepared. There’s a lot of homework that needs to be done before considering taking the plunge. Read and research as much as you can about the different types of dildos and materials available. Educating yourself on the materials is key to making the right decision, so I can’t emphasize this enough. Plus, it’s an exciting process!
I also recommend practicing with something lesser than a real dildo before diving in. It could be something as simple as a body safe finger vibes, a butt plug, or even a dilator. What ever it may be, it’s important to be familiar with the type of sensation you might expect when using a real dildo. Plus, the practice will help you gain confidence in being in control of the situation, making the experience that much more enjoyable in the end.
The most important thing when it comes to using a real dildo is communication. Before trying anything new together, make sure to talk to your partner and verbalize any expectations or boundaries you have regarding the experience. That way, nothing will come as a surprise and everything you do will be consensual and comfortable. There should never be any pressure to do anything that either of you are not completely comfortable with!
Finally, it’s essential to have proper lube and a safe base for the dildo. When it comes to lubricants, stick to water-based ones, since they’re easy to use and won’t stain any fabric. As for the base, make sure to use something that’s specifically designed for dildos. There’s a wide variety of materials available, so be sure to pick one that’s comfortable and secure.
Ultimately, the decision of when to try a real dildo is up to you. But if you abide by these simple rules and practice ahead of time, I guarantee that you will have a much more enjoyable and safe experience.
The next step after trying a real dildo is discovering all the possibilities of incorporating it in your playtime. There are a ton of different positions and activities that you can explore and trying different materials for diverse sensations. Whether you experiment with double penetration or introduce it during foreplay, the possibilities are endless.
Another way to incorporate dildos into your sex dolls life is by using them together with a harness. Wearing one is a great way to add a whole new level of pleasure for both the wearer and the receiver. It can also be incredibly stimulating to wear a harness because you get to control the speed and pressure while the other gets to just lay back and enjoy.
If you’re looking to get kinkier with your dildo, role play is an option. You can pretend to be someone else and have somebody else take on the role of the dom. It also allows for a lot of fun experimenting and trying different things while also building trust and intimacy.
Finally, don’t forget to practice proper cleaning habits with your new toy. Keep it stored in a safe place away from dust and direct sunlight and don’t forget to wash it before and after each use! With the proper knowledge and care, you can bring your bedroom play to new heights!