I thought I’d never see something like ‘boy to female sex doll porn’ but here I am, confronted with a reality that is becoming more and more real with each passing day. It’s not something that I’m particularly shocked by, and in fact, a few friends of mine are avid followers of this kind of porn. It’s Not necessarily something I am into myself.

When I first heard about it, I felt an odd mixture of repulsion and curiosity. On one hand, it seemed wrong and almost at odds with my ethical compass, on the other hand it was the sheer novelty and absurdity of it that provoked my intrigue. Was it wrong to have such palpable curiosity or was I taking part in an educated exploration of modern-day ‘taboos’? I soon learned to move on.

To be honest, it’s something that I’m still conflicted about. On one hand, it’s not something that I stand behind or support, and on the other hand, I also cannot deny it’s increasing presence on the global stage. It’s important that we, as a society, keep the debate open and informed so that it’s not something we judge without really understanding the complex and potentially beneficial layers that it has to offer.

I think it’s important to be open-minded about this topic, vibrators and approach it from both a objective as well as subjective perspective. There certainly are concerns about such a concept, and at the same time it could also be argued that it could provide the opportunity for self-exploration and intimacy with no risk.

Of course, it could just be seen as an exploration of the ‘other’, and this could be argued to be an unhealthy outlet. We live in an increasingly digitally-focused world, and whether we choose to accept it or not, phenomena such as these will continue to pop up here and there. It’s up to us as individuals to stay informed and stay ahead of the curve, instead of just shying away from topics that we really don’t understand.

I believe we should be open-minded to fresh concepts that enter the conversation, while being aware of the impact they could have on our lives, both as individuals and as members of society. It’s up to us to decide how we want to respond and the way that we want to interact with such themes. And only then can we make a truly educated judgement.

I remember the days when the mere mention of such ‘taboos’ would have been enough to get anyone despised, but I’m glad that we, as a society, have grown increasingly more open-minded and understanding. We now have the tools, resources and means to tackle conversations such as this more appropriately, without the fear of being judged.

I agree we should be conscious of the power dynamics at play and strive to create a culture of consensual and respectful exploring. We should be mindful of those who are part of this ‘culture’, and actively try to protect them from outdated forms of fetishization. There’s still much to learn about the subject, but the discourse around it is certainly changing for the better.

We have to acknowledge that this is part of our contemporary reality, and start to dive into its potential implications, understandings, and opportunities. We must come together to understand vibrators the nuances of why these topics and movements exist, and take part in responsible exploration. The more knowledgeable about these matters, the better off we would be.

In today’s landscape, I would implore people to take the time and do their research. To actively engage in conversations that center around themes such as these, and to strive to gain more understanding of the motivations, dynamics and power structures that exist in such circles. Only then can we come to our own conclusions.