male masturbating in night

I’m sure a lot of people can relate when I say that masturbating at night is something that I’ve struggled with quite a bit.​ From day one I was trying to understand why it was hard to cum when alone, and why it was so much easier to cum with a partner? I’ve come to conclude that it’s all a mental thing and it comes down to how comfortable you are with yourself.​

The first time I masturbated at night I remember being so embarrassed and scared of getting caught.​ All I wanted to do was relax and enjoy myself, but I could not turn off my brain and the fear of someone walking in on me.​ It felt like an eternity before I was able to find some relief.​

One thing that really helps me when I’m masturbating alone is setting the mood.​ Whether that’s a dimmed light, some atmospheric jazz, some stimulating visuals, sex toys or even just a special pillow, the ambiance can make all the difference when it comes to setting the scene.​

My best advice is to make sure you’re absolutely comfortable and you find a good spot that won’t distract you or make you feel watched.​ It’s a good reminder to always lock your door too.​

When it comes to the physical aspect of masturbating, I like taking my time and exploring all the sensitive areas that make me happy.​ It’s important to remember that not everything you do needs to be about getting to an orgasm as quickly as possible.​ In fact, I find that getting caught up in too much goal-oriented thinking can take away from the pleasure of the moment.​

There are some tricks I use to activate my mind and help me get aroused.​ Listening to sexy music or watching porn can really get the juices flowing and allow me to get into the zone.​ I also find playing with different speed and intensity to be quite helpful.​

It takes a lot of practice, but eventually I was able to really get to know my body and the kind of stimulation it likes best.​ I’m sure that if you take some time to explore yourself and get comfortable with your own pleasure, you’ll be able to enjoy the great benefits of night time masturbation too.​

The more I moved past my initial anxiety of masturbating at night, the more I came to really appreciate the freedom and comfort that comes with it.​ For me, nothing beats the feeling of being at home in my own skin.​ Knowing that I can completely let go and explore my pleasure without judgment or shame is what makes it such a special experience.​

My approach nowadays for night sessions is to really commit to the pleasure and make sure I’m taking my time.​ I don’t set any expectations or goals for myself and just let my body dictate the kinds of sensations that feel good.​

The beauty of solo sex is that there’s nobody telling you what to do and you’re free to explore your own pleasure and desires.​ I know that not everyone gets there in the same way, but I find that it’s these moments of experimentation with myself that lead to the best orgasms.​

I’m also a big believer in using sex toys and different accessories to switch up my regular routine and explore new types of pleasure.​ I find that these little things can really amplify the sensations or create new kinds of tingles.​

The most important thing to remember when masturbating alone is that it should be a journey of self-discovery and pleasure.​ I’m not sure if there’s a “right” way to do it, but I do know that with enough trust, patience and resilience, you’ll find ways to get yourself off even when the lights are off.​