Once upon a time, I had a best friend who’d do anything for me. She was always there for me when I needed her, no matter the situation. Her love and support was something that you can’t easily put a price tag on.
But then one day she started talking about this ‘fucking’ bff with a dildo. Ummmmm, what in the world was she talking about?!? She told me about this kinky new thing that was apparently ‘all the rage’ with the cool kids.
Turns out, ‘fucking bff with a dildo’ wasn’t actually a new trend, but instead it was an acronym that stood for ‘bilateral female-frontal psychotherapy’. It basically meant that two women were having a psychotherapy session together with a dildo. Say what?!
At first I was kind of weirded out, I mean, who wants to talk about their problems with a dildo? But then my friend explained that having a tangible object like a dildo can help those who are having difficulty expressing themselves with words. She said that the physical sensation of holding a dildo can be grounding and calming during their session.
My friend then went on to explain other benefits to this type of psychotherapy, like the increased personal connection between people as they are able to better understand each other when they are both focused on a physical object in the middle. Plus, as there are usually no ‘right or wrong’ answers when it comes to objects, sessions can become more emotionally safe for Penis Rings those involved.
Well, that sounded pretty comforting, so I asked my friend if she thought we should try it, and to be honest I was kind of expecting her to laugh it off as a silly joke. But to my surprise, she was on board! We decided to have our own little bff-with-dildo session to see what it was all about.
We went to the nearest adult store and got ourselves a nice sparkly purple dildo. To be honest I was kind of nervous as I picked it up, but then my friend grabbed my arm and told me that it was going to be alright. We then went back to her house, settled into her bedroom, and started our session.
We laid on her bed, facing each other, and put the dildo in the middle. We held both ends of the dildo in our hands, and started to talk. We talked about all sorts of things, from school to boys, to our dreams and aspirations. We talked about our fears and our failures.
At first, it did feel a bit weird talking about our feelings and having a dildo in the middle. But surprisingly, after a while I felt like I was fully relaxed. I felt like I could open up without any judgement or fear of being laughed at. My friend was really supportive and understanding and just hearing her say that it was alright for me to feel the way I felt was really comforting.
As we laid there, I realized that this type of psychotherapy was really incredible. It was like nothing I had ever experienced before and I was totally blown away. It was amazing how a simple object like a dildo can be so powerful.
So, the bff-with-dildo experience was a real game-changer for vibrators me and my friend. We went through a lot of really difficult conversations that day, but that dildo was the bridge that helped us to open up and to better understand each other.
Maybe this type of therapy isn’t for everyone, but it has certainly changed my life in a positive way and I’m thankful to my friend for introducing me to it. I’m also thankful for that sparkly purple dildo for helping me to understand my feelings better and for connecting me with my best friend in a way I never thought was possible.