When it comes to exploring our sexuality and our body, most people can get somewhat uncomfortable. One thing that definitely puts us outside of our comfort zone is the thought of using a dildo anally. For me, I found out about this by accident when I was at a party and someone mentioned it casually in conversation. I didn’t realize that people did this, although I was also too embarrassed to ask questions. Since then, I’ve done my research and wanted to explain what happens if you use a dildo anally and how you can do it safely.

The very first thing that needs to be clear is that it is a little bit risky. Unlike vaginal penetration, the rectum and anus don’t self lubricate. This means that it is more painful and can cause small tears. Anal sex can also cause issues for those with sensitive skin or a weakened immune system. Making sure you use plenty of lubrication is the most important step that you can take when using a dildo anally.

There are a few different types of lubricants available to purchase. Water based lubricants are good for vaginal and anal use, as they don’t contain any ingredients that can cause irritation. Silicone based lubricants are perfect for anal because they are longer-lasting and can provide a more slippery feel. It’s important to avoid oil based lubricants when using a dildo anally as they can cause damage to the toy’s material. Once you have the lubricant, it’s important to apply it generously to your and the dildo’s body.

The next thing to consider is size. If you try to insert a dildo that is too big, it could cause discomfort or even pain. To find out what size is right for you, try to look for dildos that have different widths and lengths. You should then start with the smallest one and work your way up to what feels comfortable.

When it comes to insertion, make sure you are ready and relaxed. Take a few deep breaths and really try to relax into your body. Then, make sure you insert the dildo slowly and let it adjust to your body. Moving too quickly can cause minor tears in your rectum, so it’s important to go slow.

Finally, you should also keep in mind that there are some anal sex toys that are specifically designed for this purpose. These toys will have a flared base that will prevent them from getting too far inside your body. So it’s a good idea to always make sure you are using a toy specifically made for anal penetration.

When it comes to using a dildo anally, there are some risks involved. However, with the right knowledge and preparation, you can make sure that you are engaged in safe and enjoyable anal play. Not only will it help you explore your body and your sexuality, but it can also be extremely pleasurable and gratifying.

In addition to being aware of the risks and having the right preparation, using a dildo anally can be extremely pleasurable. During insertion, the inner walls of the rectum create a soft and gentle sensation. In addition, there are some interesting parts of the rectum that can be stimulated for extra pleasure. Using a dildo that has a slight curve or a variety of textures can also make the experience a lot more pleasurable.

Another aspect that can make anal play even more enjoyable is combining it with other activities. For example, some people like to add some light bondage or massage to their anal experience to add excitement and variety. Additionally, if you’re using a dildo vaginally, you can combine it with anal penetration to enhance the pleasurable feeling created by multiple zones.

Using a dildo anally is a great way to explore your body and your sexuality. With some preparation and knowledge, you can make sure that the experience is both safe and pleasurable. Whether you are new to anal play or simply want to mix up your routine, using a dildo anally is certainly something worth trying out.

Anal sex can also be a great opportunity to explore BDSM. Both those who identify as dominant or submissive can use a dildo anally to experiment with power dynamics. For those who are submissive, it can be a great opportunity to trust and surrender to the experience.

When I first started exploring anal sex, I had a lot of misconceptions and worries. But with time, patience and preparation, I learned that using a dildo anally can be an incredibly fulfilling and pleasurable experience. It’s given me the opportunity to hone my sexual skills, challenge myself and explore new ways to experience pleasure. Plus, it can also be an incredibly intimate experience when done with a partner.

If anal play interests you, then it pays to take the time to go slow and learn the basics first. Make sure you have the right materials, relax into your body and approach the experience with an open and curious mind. With these tips, you can make sure that using a dildo anally is as enjoyable and safe as it can be.